Thursday, November 21, 2013
The Summary of The Riffle Effect
The Master was walking through the fields one day when a young man, a troubled look upon his face. The Master asked his condition and took him around the fields. Until the Master told the young man to have a sit and gave some advises to him. The Master gave a parable, he said that to the young man trouble was like riffle. If you tried to stop the ripple, stopped from what had caused the riffle, did not try to stop the riffle effect with your hands, it just made more riffles. Same as trouble in our life, tried to stop it before it happened.
The Moral Value
• When you are unhappy with your life, try to handle the problem before it will happen and inflicting more problem.
• Take the responsibility for living your own life.
• Try to understand what have caused the problem,do not only solve the problem just because we want it's done.
Friday, November 8, 2013
The Ripple
Effect
The Master was walking through the fields one day when a young man, a
troubled look upon his face, approached him. "On such a beautiful day, it
must be difficult to stay so serious," the Master said. "Is it? I
hadn't noticed," the young man said, turning to look around and notice his
surroundings. His eyes scanned the landscape, but nothing seemed to register;
his mind elsewhere. Watching intently, the Master continued to walk. "Join
me if you like." The Master walked to the edge of a still pond, framed by
sycamore trees, their leaves golden orange and about to fall. "Please sit
down," the Master invited, patting the ground next to him. Looking
carefully before sitting, the young man brushed the ground to clear a space for
himself. "Now, find a small stone, please," the Master instructed.
"What?" "A stone. Please find a small stone and throw it in the
pond." Searching around him, the young man grabbed a pebble and threw it
as far as he could. "Tell me what you see," the Master instructed.
Straining his eyes to not miss a single detail, the man looked at the water's
surface. "I see ripples." "Where did the ripples come
from?" "From the pebble I threw in the pond, Master."
"Please reach your hand into the water and stop the ripples," the
Master asked. Not understanding, the young man stuck his hand in the water as a
ripple neared, only to cause more ripples. The young man was now completely
baffled. Where was this going? Had he made a mistake in seeking out the Master?
After all he was not a student, perhaps he could not be helped? Puzzled, the
young man waited. "Were you able to stop the ripples with your
hands?" the Master asked. "No, of course not." "Could you
have stopped the ripples, then?" "No, Master. I told you I only
caused more ripples." "What if you had stopped the pebble from
entering the water to begin with?" The Master smiled such a beautiful
smile; the young man could not be upset. "Next time you are unhappy with
your life, catch the stone before it hits the water. Do not spend time trying
to undo what you have done. Rather, change what you are going to do before you
do it." The Master looked kindly upon the young man. "But Master, how
will I know what I am going to do before I do it?" "Take the
responsibility for living your own life. If you're working with a doctor to
treat an illness, then ask the doctor to help you understand what caused the
illness. Do not just treat the ripples. Keep asking questions." The young
man stopped, his mind reeling. "But I came to you to ask you for answers.
Are you saying that I know the answers?" "You may not know the
answers right now, but if you ask the right questions, then you shall discover
the answers." "But what are the right questions, Master?"
"There are no wrong questions, only unasked ones. We must ask, for without
asking, we cannot receive answers. But it is your responsibility to ask. No one
else can do that for you." taken from http://www.parablesite.com/
Determining Day
That day, I was there, watching
it all happened. That day came as a determination for me, if I would be a
student in 3 Senior High School Bandung or not. It was such as a heart
breaking, even though I was not really hoping that I could be a student in this
great school. At that time I just thought I would find a school that fixed with
my UN score, but in fact 3 Senior High School was one of my choices. So that
day must have happened in my life.
That day, first thing that I
did, I just stayed at home because my parents would take care of my
registration, so I just prayed at home that I could enter a school which had a
good influence for me and for my future. At the same time, I was watching my computer,
saw the list of people’s registration that had registered to 3 Senior High
School, but later on after that, my mom called me and told me to went to 4
Senior High School Bandung to check if
there was a change for me to enter that school so I could have a preparations
for another planed if I couldn’t enter 3 Senior High School, but when I was
checking the list with my cousin in 4 Senior High School, my mom called me
again and told me to went to 3 Senior High School because my parents had given
my file form to 3 Senior High School.
My cousin drove me to 3 Senior
High School, when I arrived, I stepped my foot right on the Kalimantan 3 Senior
High School’s gate. I meant to find my parents to know my position at the list
but when I was at the corridor I got myself stuck there, stared at the monitor
that shown a list of every people’s UN score, I felt uneasier again to feel
calm inside. Now, I began to wondering to myself “Will am I being thrown away
to another school? Or what ?!” I never
knew about my destiny. Finally, I met my parents, I asked them “where is my
position now?” they said calmly “Just go there and find your position at
monitor.” I tried to see the monitor with my cousin at the holly crowded people
that wanted registered “Oh what?! 19th? Am I… ? will be thrown?!” wondered inside my
mind, but as I kept wondering in my mind my cousin said “You’ll save in that
position. Don’t worry!” he tried to cheer me up. But I guessed everyone knew
that if the quota student from out Bandung was 26 people who would get a chair
3 Senior High School, I didn’t know if I should feel save or not, but I was
trying to. Until my other cousin who had accompanied my parents from the
beginning registration told me that if five or it might be more than that, if
it should, would be thrown out from the list if their score were lower than
students who counted from in town, I asked “Why?” panicked, my other cousin said “To make the
condition fair, have you ever thought that if the students who counted as out
town were allowed to enter 3 Senior High School even their score were lower
then the students from in town, who cannot enter 3 Senior High School just
because the quota, but in fact their score were higher than students from out
town, the students from in town must be arguing about it.” I answered smoothly
“oh.. I see.” . I thought it was right I shouldn’t argue about it, but now I
must had been in the line of list that would be kicked out. It was one hour
again to the registration closing, I stood in my silent and kept saw for the
queue of people that still had affairs with registration, oh you knew what I
felt it was bothering my mind.
The teachers that handle the
registration still made a move, and the teacher who his job was announce the
updated information kept said with his microphone “for everyone who the score
is 37 or more than that please from now having the registration.” And one more
“We beg, please for everyone that have the score 37 or even more than that have
a sign right now, to make it clear for the list.” And twice, and same for the
next.
The
announcer announced every 5 minutes left, now it was a half hour again to the
closing, I and my cousin was trying to see the list again. When we walked to
the monitor, we passed by with my cousin’s friend, I saw him, was holding his
cousin, who was crying, my cousin asked him “Why is she crying?” he answered
“Oh, my cousin feels confused now, because her score is 37,20 and she is in the
line of the end of the quota. She is counted as the student who will enter 3
Senior High School but the problem is, there are 5 people that have the same
score with her, so it makes her confuse because now the decision is belong to the
school side to choose one of them.” “Oh..
how terrible” my cousin said slowly. “So how about you? Is that your cousin?” asked
my cousin’s friend to my cousin. “Oh sure, she’s my cousin. We’re still waiting
too.” Answered my cousin “Oh, I see. And how about your cousin’s score?” asked
to my cousin again “She got 37,45.” My cousin answered. “Oh your cousin can
enter 3, I’m sure about it.” He said. “Oh
I think so, thanks.” answered my cousin. “You heard that? I’ve said that you’ll
save, just trust me.” My cousin cheered me up.
Unnoticed it was 15 minutes to the closing, the
time left was bringing to me to hope and to believe again. The announcer now
began to announce the time to the closing, every minutes he told us. My two
cousins just grinned to me, it meant that might be they believe if would enter
3 Senior High School, but the time was still moving and there was still no word
to said it had done, behind the time that killed, there was a change to a
possibility to everything that we never knew. I was still standing and waiting
just for an answered. It was 10 minutes again every people began to feel
stressed enough to wait. One person started to scream a sentence “Close NOW!!”
and every minutes that brought us to the closing there were more people that
said “CLOSE! CLOSE!”. You would never know the feeling when I was there, but if
I said Happy New Year Celebrating I thought now you could imagine if it was
sort of like that. There, every people now became wilder than ever was, the
time shown us that it was now just 10 seconds to the closing, every people now
came near to the monitor and began to count with screaming voices
“ 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1,
CLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSEEEEE NOWWW!!!!!!”
At that moment all people shouted a loud of screaming,
happy, and everything that we felt there we shown it. It was like wow, you
couldn’t believe even for me too never believe that I’ve ever felt that moment.
And even for the reporters, teachers, people and then my cousins too, seemed
like they didn’t want to lose this moment too, so all of them recorded it with
their own gadgets. But there was a sad sight too, for every people that had not
a change to enter 3 Senior High School felt frustrated and tears were all
falling through their cheek. My cousin record my expression when I was there,
they said congratulation to me and my parents too. I really happy that time all
my questions was answered that time, if my place was in 3 Senior High School
Bandung. But I knew it wasn’t an ending but it was just a beginning to start to
work hard, here, in 3 Senior High School Bandung.
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